EMBARRASSING MOMENT
I realize that
we better remember our friend’s name if we don’t want to be embarrassed in
public. I did not mean that we have to remember everyone’s name, but at least
we have to remember thus who we have talked with. Because when you caught up
forgotten their names when they are exactly remember yours, well-that would be
embarrassing.
It was a sunny hectic day, when
finally my TEFL class ended. I and my best friend, Indah decided to had lunch
together at a food court near my boarding house. When we arrived at the court’s
parking lot, there were a group of guys from another faculty. From a distance I
realize that two of them looked so familiar, so I stood still. Seeing I paused,
Indah asked “What happened?” I replied “I think I know two of them” “Who?” asked
Indah. “That one I can’t remember” I said.
I got used to greet people by their
names due to respect them. It just felt wrong when someone that I know greets
me by name but I do not. So that afternoon was so depressing. I kept wondering,
tried to remember their names as I walked closer to the court. My fear became
reality when we reached the court. They remembered me.
“Hey Pipin, long time no see! Do you
live around here? One of them asked. I startled. My brain exploded inside my
head for unable to retrieve any information of this guy who just talked with
me. I can felt my cheeks burning as sweat streaming down on my back. So I was only able to say “Yes” weakly with a
fake smile. Then I ordered my lunch quickly and picked the furthest spot from
that group of boys. I still can feel that guy eye on my back. Surely he
considered me as an arrogant person, I thought.
As soon as I sat on my table, Indah
confronted me. “Who is he?” “I don’t know!” I hissed rashly. “But he seemed
know you very well!!” she replied in a same tone. “Yeah, but I can’t remember!”
I shrieked. And just like a sudden storm, when I said that, a glimpse of memory
enlightened me. I remembered them! They are my seniors in Executive
Organization, Sukma and Okta. My cheeks turned red again as I realized that.
How can I forget them? When I told Indah about it, she just laughed out loud. I
felt so stupid. But sadly, things not ended there.
When we finished our lunch and going
to pay it, Sukma - apparently attempted to do the same – he poked me on the
shoulder. “Hi” I dared myself to call his name. He smiled and said lightly
“Haha.. I thought you have forgotten me back there” And after that, his friends
laughed, and one of them exclaimed “Nah, your face is easily forgotten, Sukma!”
and once again they are explode in hilarious laughter. I can feel my cheeks
turned warmer for the third time. “Oh shut up” Sukma defended himself. It might
be a joke for them, but that was so embarrassing for me. I just pretended to
giggle and took my leave after saying goodbye.
That was one embarrassing moment I
have experienced. Greeting people is a part of respecting them. But of course
you can’t properly greet them if you do not remember their name, especially thus
who remember yours. It will hurt their feeling if you didn’t. Well, I think I
just need to learn remembering all peoples’ name that I have talked with, so I
wouldn’t experienced such an embarrassment again.
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